I am torn between the two. I long to depart and be with Christ. —Philippians 1:23
When I’m honest, I often discover I feel disappointed because I’ve set unrealistic expectations. Do I assume I’ll do everything perfectly the first time? Or expect my friends to meet all my emotional needs? Do I assume the Christian life will be free from hardship?
Our dual citizenship in this world and the next causes us to long for the perfection of heaven while struggling through on sin-scarred earth.
Jesus was frank with His disciples, and His words are meant for us too: “You will have suffering in this world” (John 16:33). Loving God doesn’t shield us from trials. In some ways, it attracts them. Our dual citizenship in this world and the next causes us to long for heaven’s perfection while struggling through on sin-scarred earth. We know we were created for more, better, perfect. But not yet.
God’s Word and His Spirit can help us evaluate whether our hopes are unrealistic. Invite Him to search your heart. Accept what He reveals. Then ask Him to give you the desires He wants you to have.
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“How Should Christians Handle Disappointment?” (ReviveOurHearts.com/blog)
Scripture taken from The CSB
Make it Personal
Ask God to help you evaluate whether your expectations are realistic or not and be willing to accept His plans for you.